One of the boys who comes from a family with a history of aggressive behaviour is enjoying the carpet area. He has four pairs of socks on brought from home. He takes them off one by one. The staff are curious by the third layer. He then reveals the final pair. Pink and white. I ask him his favourite colour. With a smile and with pride he shouts ‘It’s pink.’
How pleasing that nursery is a safe environment where he can be himself. How sad that he conceals the socks prior to nursery.
Proof that we need to support boys who feel that they can’t be themselves.